Thursday, September 27, 2012

 I think any girl or woman for that matter, that is outspoken,has a strong personality and is passionate about what she believes will be treated with a unfavorable  response from other girls/woman time to time. I believe I was a outspoken and strong teenager   & as the years went by, the put downs, gossip, nasty comments coming from girls and woman that cant handle seeing another girl or woman shine, does bring you down at times. Its about their insecurities, their jealousies and need to feel they are more important than another. Its from a lack of understanding oneself strengths, capabilities. Some woman need to limit another woman more intelligent than them, or more outgoing than them, or more beautiful than them, or more popular than them. Its a trait some woman have.

 I tell  young female teenager that are being put down or bullied by others,  that your ability to believe in yourself, to voice your opinions, to be you is only a assest and many will be treaten by it. Yet keep going because you are so needed in thie world of fake personalities. Keep good freinds, look for quality not quanility, and know the best of freinds, the healer and supporter of all, Allahswt is by your side.

 Trails and test with ppl are a way to mould us to be stronger, to be closer and more purer in our love to out Creator and our true purpose in life. Try to minimise your time around these girls & keep a journal of your thoughs, mind set, how your feeling.

 Than each day write one thing positive or beautiful about yourself or kind comments/advices other sincern, caring girls/woman have given you, so you have it stored and it can be a something you can look back to when your feeling your "bucket" being dipped out, where others have rob some of the water of life from it.So many ppl dont know the deeper beauty under the surface.

There are so many  young, talented and amazing girls out there but do not realise their true worth because of basing their opinion of themselves on what others think.  Let the haters out of your heart and mind. I did many years ago :)

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